Nampa Mayor, and bachelor, Tom Dale is set to declare February 11-17 as "Celebration of Marriage Week," according to the Idaho Press-Tribune [story in print edition 1/30.] If you've got a healthy, legal marriage you might want to head over to Nampa for the festivities. These festivities include a ceremony at Nampa City Hall on Feb. 13 where Dale will recognize the 2007 "Marriage Ambassadors" and a ribbon-cutting ceremony for the new Healthy Families - Nampa (HFN) office.
Healthy Families is...well, let's let them describe it.
Healthy Families - Nampa is a coalition of faith-based and other community partners operating an initiative to promote healthy marriage and responsible fatherhood. It was one of the first to receive, in 2003, a federal waiver to run such a demonstration program. Healthy Families - Nampa received a five-year $550,000 grant from the Administration for Children and Families to get started.
That's the Federal Government to you and me and yes, that means taxpayer money. Read the U.S. Health Department report here. One of their key initiatives is partnering with the local Catholic hospital, Mercy Medical Center, to promote marriage through "education" targeted toward unmarried women delivering newborns in the OB department there.
There was a 33% out-of-wedlock birth rate, and when there's a divorce in a family, these children -- close to 70% of their moms will become TANF (Temporary Assistance for Needy Family) participants. Then those children end up in poverty, and as a result, then they've got these other indicators -- the emotional and social indicators that reflect that they won't have as good a chance as kids that come from a two-parent household.
We here have a large Hispanic population. I think the last census put this area at about 20%. But in the (state) Department of Health and Welfare, better than 30% of our participants are (Hispanic). We know we've got about a 38% out-of-wedlock birth rate in our local hospital with our Hispanic community. And so the hospital was also a partner at the table, because they are a Catholic hospital.
... And so they understood the need to be able to reach these young couples having kids out of wedlock and introduce the concept of having a healthy relationship -- entertaining the idea of a marriage. And before you get married or while you're getting married, engaging them in relationship and marriage education for the benefit of not just their marriage, but for the wellbeing of their child.
HFN also offers family education counseling which includes topics such as "Love and Logic" and "Growing Couples and Families," the purpose of the latter from the HFN website
is to build, enhance and restore healthy relationships through family and couple therapy. This program serves couples and families dealing with issues such as life transitions, family/couple conflicts, family loss, troubled children, and marital enrichment.
Who is HFN's target population? Tammy Payne, who oversaw HFN's implementation and is currently the HFN state representative says
At first we started referring people from the child support program within the Department of Health and Welfare, and then from the welfare benefits programs and then the foster care programs. ... And so about 60% of our referrals come from the social service system and about 40% come from the broader community.
So, it's mostly those on welfare and in the social services system and apparently the point is to get married and stay married. Just don't tell that to the families of Colleen Hubbard or Theresa Time, two prominent cases of domestications gone horribly wrong in Nampa. Read about Colleen Hubbard here and here and Theresa Time here and here. Perhaps in HFN's eyes they and their husbands just didn't get enough conflict counseling. While educating and counseling couples in conflict management and marriage preservation may be helpful in some cases, in others it can be deadly.
So how effective is the program? According to Payne, we don't know yet.
I think it's pretty early for that. We started in January of '04. It's only been two years under the bridge. ... But as far as long-term data and long-term outcomes, it's still going to be a few years down the road that we take a look at the real emotional and social impacts.
Well, I'm not going to begrudge Healthy Families - Nampa or Mayor Tom Dale celebrating marriage — it just seems very ironic that a bachelor would be promoting marriage as the cure for all societal ills.